While some people kill family members for revenge against someone else for a perceived slight or injury, “I would caution people not to rush to judgement in this matter,” said Cashen, adding, “I encourage everyone in our community to not express conjecture on Facebook or other social media.”
O’Connor also advised judicious use of social media. “Wait for all the facts to come out before assuming that what you read is true,” she said. Instead, spend time engaging in self care, such as exercise, creative pursuits and meditation or prayer.
For young children grappling with the news, O’Connor advised telling them, “Just like people can get sick in their body, they can get sick in their minds. Sometimes, when people get sick in their minds, they are in a great deal of pain and can see no other choice but to leave the world. Even though they may feel that way, there are always options, like talking to friends and family. Just like with the flu, we can get better if we take our medicine, talk with someone and take care of ourselves.”